Monday, February 12, 2007

WakTheSak

I dont post links often, but I had fun today with this one!!

Clink here for a laugh

I love the sound effects!!

My High Score?

465 and rising ;)

The Three Stages of Denial

Tease and denial... Mmmmmmmm delightful!

There are three very distinct “stages” of denial that a sub experiences.

Need, Ache, and Frustration.

I love the word “need” although I don’t think it ever truly applies, though it has been very convincingly argued by some I respect quite well that it in fact DOES. I have heard the plea... 'But Mistress, you don't know what it feels like, you don't understand, I NEEEEED to cum' often. My boys have told me that there is a certain physical “need” that undeniably exists. However they endure it because they know it brings me pleasure. I guess this is where the “anything”, would come into play. I mean if you really “NEED” something, especially on a cellular level then I imagine that you would do anything to satisfy that need. Especially if being manipulated by a skilled wickedly playful force.

The sub may plead the need to cum, but actually they don't need it like they need, for example, to piss. Of course, the feeling of psychological need can be honed to almost any level by a skilled Domme. But the sub's pleas that he'll do anything are of course exaggerations. The fun comes when the Domme sees just how far the sub is really willing to go, and then goes a little further… Oh the fun!

I don’t have the equipment to truly understand the “Need” but I understand enough about the body to know that as time goes on there is a build up, and like any pressure, it will need to be released, but just when will I let that “need” be fulfilled?

Next, because of that build up, comes the ache. Oh how I LOVE the concept of aching. The word itself conjures up some every yummy feelings inside me. I like the thought of my boys carrying around a pair of overly sensitive full balls, and a cock that will throb at the slightest tease from me, reminding them that I am very much in control of their pleasure. I chuckle when I hear them tell me 'Oh God Mistress it HURTS!' That gets me all tingly, along with sweet whimpers, moans and begging. There is something so erotically powerful in the words “I thought you’d like to know I’m REALLY feeling it today.” or "I am so horny" followed by begging.

Then we come to frustration. I think this one is the most volatile. It can go from funny and sexy to total hell in less time than it takes to say you may cum. I must admit though my sadistic side seems to REALLY enjoy this part. I LOVE fucking with people minds. Making them all squirmy and sexually frustrated, but that is the only frustration I really enjoy. However like I say, it can flip from fun to hell all to quickly, so knowing my boys well always helps me to know just how far to push, each time pushing a fraction more, not enough to flip the fun, but enough to slowly take them deeper into the whole experience.

For me it's all about the ache, the leaking, the frustration, the desperation, and the begging. I LOVE the pleading and begging, so sexy, so erotic, so powerful, almost nothing gets me wetter, especially if they are knelt in front of me, open, venerable and on display. I enjoy the submission that denail can bring out in a boy.

And of course, the end result that moment when they are allowed release all that is forgotten as they hit that headspace that sends them reeling in pleasure. “Earth calling slut, earth calling slut, come in slut”